Maybe it’s OK to be shy?


Sometimes… it’s OK to be yourself. If you’re shy, you’re shy.

Because part of being confident is accepting who you already are.

In this video, I share my own experience with this idea and why it’s important.

Do you need help with accepting yourself? I can help. Just send me an email and let’s book a session together.

How to be OK with your “weaknesses”


Is it OK to have weaknesses? Can we be confident and still say “yes, I find some things difficult”? What does this mean for our confidence?

Watch and tell me what YOU think.

Share this video with a friend and share your weaknesses with us.

Or send me an email and let’s talk.

Not sure what this means to you? Then book a free confidence coaching with me and let’s work together.

When it’s all too much

Sometimes… it’s all too much…

Study, work, family, social life, presentations…. AHHHHH!!!

This is not a ‘how to’ video. I want to talk you through some questions you can ask you when you feel like this.

And share… what did you learn? Tell us here or send me an email.

Sharing is caring. Do you know someone in overwhlem? Share this video with them.

The power of self-love


Self-love (or self-care) is THE most important thing you can ever do.

In this video, I talk about my experience in Berlin, voices in my head, overworking and how I recover.

So ask yourself this Christmas: how can I be kind to myself now?

Don’t know how to be kind? Then send me an email and let’s talk about how I can help you.

Love, Victoria.

You don’t need to prove yourself

“You are exactly how you should be… we need you to be you and you don’t need to do something more to be a ‘better’ person”

In this video, I talk about what happens when you try too hard to get what you want. I talk about how we can change this and learn how to relax.

PS this is also the first video where I learnt how to customise the YouTube thumbnail – GO ME!

A meditation

Here is a short meditation for you.

You don’t need to be ‘spiritual’ to do meditation. I find it helps my confidence a lot because…

  1. … it slows my thoughts down
  2. … it is a way of being kind to myself

Both of these things help me to feel good. And when I feel good, I feel a lot more confident.

So why not do it with me and see how you feel afterwards?

Well done!

“It’s really important to stop and to think: ‘Wow. Look at me. Look at the amazing things I have done today’”

Holidays. Time to relax, spend time with family… and make more videos!

It’s important to relax…. but there’s one more thing you can do.

Watch, listen, relax. You are doing brilliantly.

When you want to give up


It’s OK if you want to give up sometimes. It happens.

The important thing is to find a healthy way to feel better. Here is my advice on how to do this.

Have a wonderful day,